How To Know She Is The Right Babe For You

 

Your friends are really, genuinely happy for you. After suffering through terrible scenes with your exes, if your friends are so relieved that you're actually with someone who is worth it and seems right for you, then she is likely the one. 

You want to protect her. Even though she might seem strong emotionally and physically, if you keep having the impulse to protect her then just go all the way for her.

You tell her you miss her when she's gone, and you really mean it. You don’t just rhetorically say you miss her. You actually do and it drives you nuts. Why wait? Just wife her pronto. 

You still catch her admiring you even when you feel you are not presentable. If she thinks you are the hottest and most attractive living human and is proud to tell you to your face with happy disposition, then she is the one. 

You have the same ideology. If you both want the same type of relationship, you know where you both stand on having children, and your goals for the future are the same. If you both have the same religious beliefs.

If you want to work until you're 90, so does she. If you want to retire early and eat only pudding for the rest of your life, she's cool with that. If she likes to sleep-in every weekend and that’s just right up your alley. Well, we don’t need to tell you she is the one.

You hear your friends complain how terrible things are in their relationships and you are like, THANK GOD OUR CASE IS DIFFERENT. Just keep it to yourself that you and your girlfriend have fun staring at blank walls and she's incredibly supportive and thoughtful and compassionate. Not the time to share that info. Don’t bother adding more misery to the ones your friends are going through by telling them how loved up you are with your girl.

You feel totally comfortable planning things into the future around her. You don’t have to feel she might turn down the offer if you decide to pick two movie tickets without her consent. You fully feel secured that you can buy concert tickets or book a vacation in advance without worrying if she's going to break up with you or you're going to break up with her before then because you trust her completely and she's become such a part of you that your future together seems as certain as anything. It is called love security.

You can go on trips together and not fight constantly.

If you can survive outings without bickering or giving each other silent treatments then she is the one. When every drama looks like comedy and you both smile over things. Just go ‘full time’.

You can be completely honest with her about anything. No matter how anxious or worried or nervous or scared you're feeling, you know you can tell her anything at all and she won't judge you. Sexual fantasies, awkward illnesses, a fight you had with your parents; anything.

She's your biggest supporter. She believes you can do things even you're not sure you can do because she has the utmost faith and confidence in you even at your lowest moments because she believes you are magic. 

She's the first person you want to talk to when something cool/funny/weird happens. You used to text your best friend all of this stuff but your best friend isn't even mad about that because she's so happy you've found someone you're so close and connected with. 

She’s there when you need her. This may seem obvious, but it’s also one of the most important. It’s easy to be with someone when everything is fun and the sun is shining. When life gets rough, She’ll want to go through it with you. That’s true love.

She’s happy for your successes. A woman who celebrates with you when your life goes well is truly invested in you and your future together. Does she belittle your accomplishments? That’s a sign of resentment. Not good.

She makes sacrifices for you and you do the same for her. And she thinks nothing of it because she genuinely enjoys making sure you're happy and you feel the same way about her. 

She loves the way you smell.

All humans have ‘scents’. But if she is clearly attracted to the way you smell and sometimes weirdly bury her nose in your clothes and beddings just to catch more of the scents den she surely is the one. 

She loves bragging about you. All her colleagues and friends  are getting tired of all her talks about you. You are all she talks about even when with her friends. Even those that are yet to meet you have the coolest information about you. 

She likes to share her food with you. She is generous with you. Shares all she has and food with you. No matter how little, she would still share with you.

She fights fairly. She doesn't get excessively angry or mean-spirited, and she doesn't bring up old issues or low blows just to hurt you. She avoids keeping malice. She might be mad, but she wants to work it out with you, so you talk about it like adults who love each other. She doesn’t let issues cross to the next day.

She doesn’t snoop through your stuff. If her love is in doubt, she may find herself looking through your phone or browsing history for excuses to leave you. But a woman who gives you your privacy is willing to trust you. Trust is one of the strongest signs of love. 

She cares how your friends and family are doing. She knows all your friends by name and is genuinely invested in the well-being of your family members. 

She actually means it when she asks how your day went. A person in love wants to empathize with the object of her affection. Knowing every little detail of your day helps her strengthen her connection to you.


This article is also applicable to alternate gender.

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